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当我开始爱自己 卓别林 当我开始爱自己lpar;卓别林rpar; 当我真正开始爱自己 WHEN I STARTED LOVING MYSELF 查理·卓别林（Charles Chaplin） 当我真正开始爱自己， 我才认识到，所有的痛苦和情感的折磨， 都只是提醒我： 活着，不要违背自己的本心。 今天我明白了，这叫做 『真实』。 As I began to love myself, I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is 当我真正开始爱自己， 我才懂得，把自己的愿望强加于人， 是多么的无礼， 就算我知道，时机并不成熟， 那人也还没有做好准备， 就算那个人就是我自己， 今天我明白了，这叫做 『尊重』。 As I began to love myself, I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to force my desires on this person,even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it,and even though this person was me. Today I call it 当我开始爱自己， 我不再渴求不同的人生， 我知道任何发生在我身边的事情， 都是对我成长的邀请。 如今，我称之为 『成熟』。 As I began to love myself, I stopped craving for a different life,and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it 当我开始真正爱自己， 我才明白，我其实一直都在正确的时间， 正确的地方，发生的一切都恰如其分。 由此我得以平静。 今天我明白了，这叫做 『自信』。 As I began to love myself, I understood that at any circumstance,I am in the right place at the right time,and everything happens at the exactly right moment,so I could be calm. Today I call it 当我开始真正爱自己， 我不再牺牲自己的自由时间， 不再去勾画什么宏伟的明天。 今天我只做有趣和快乐的事， 做自己热爱，让心欢喜的事， 用我的方式，以我的韵律。 今天我明白了，这叫做 『单纯』。 As I began to love myself, I quit steeling my own time,and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness,things I love to do and that make my heart cheer,and I do them in my own way,and in my own rhythm. Today I call it 当我开始真正爱自己， 我开始远离一切不健康的东西。 不论是饮食和人物，还是事情和环境， 我远离一切让我远离本真的东西。 从前我把这叫做“追求健康的自私自利”， 但今天我明白了，这是 『自爱』。 As I began to love myself, I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health –food, people, things, situations,and everything that drew me down and away from myself.At first I called t