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人不能既要 又要 还要的句子 人们常常梦想做一个有责任心的人，一个勤劳的人，一个真诚的人，一个有活力的人，一个乐观的人，一个有爱的人。但是，有时候，我们既要去拥有这些吸引力，又要真实地表达出自己的真实感受，还要勤奋工作，事事卓而不群，我们却很有可能会陷入困境。 当我们想要同时具备两个完全不同的品质时，就会有很多两难的处境：我们要努力工作让自己变得更有价值，但也总是有时间比我们更真实的自己；我们要表现得乐观又外向，但是只有自己心内更深处真正把握到什么是自己的实力才能坚定走自己的路；我们要想做一个有责任心的人，但是有安全感后仍旧需要保持心态的平衡，只有体谅到他人的惘若痆牢，我们便可以展现出我们最真实的一面，保持自己每一次行动都与旁人无愧。 从某种程度上说，人们既要又要 还要的句子，有不少这样的句子可以说：要拥有平衡的心态，要勤奋工作又一定要学会自律；要勇敢去尝试新的挑战，要准备好承担风险又要做好后续的处理；要大胆说出真实的心声，要留出也可以接受改变的空间，并要学会克服恐惧；要成为一个有责任心的人，要把握自己的情绪又要学会宽容他人等等。 因此不管是说话，行动还是生活方式，其实都是一种平衡，就像一个抵相的天平： people often dream of being a responsible person, a hard-working person, an honest person, an energetic person, an optimistic person and a loving person. But sometimes, when we want to have both of these different qualities at the same time-to have the attractive but still be true to our feelings, to work hard, to stand out from the crowd-we may find ourselves in a dilemma. When we try to have two completely different qualities at the same time, it often creates a lot of dilemma: We have to work hard to make ourselves more valuable, but we have to have time to be our true selves; We have to appear optimistic and outgoing, but we have to understand our true strengths and make sure we take our own path in life; We want to be a responsible person, but we still need to balance our minds when we feel secure, and we can only show our true selves when we understand and accept the vulnerability of others in every action. So whether its speaking, acting or lifestyle, its actually about balance, just like a balanced scale: