What is Love英文演讲稿模板.docxVIP

Love is complex. how people fall in love is a question that many people think about. I want to introduce a theory, The Triangular Theory of Love developed by an American psychologist Robert Sternberg. In this theory, in a healthy and stable love relationship, there must be three points. First is intimacy. which means we trust each other, and are willing to show our weaknesses to each other, just like little animals will show their bellies. In my opinion intimacy is the basis for developing relationships between people. We want someone that we can talk about our happiness and sorrow with them, in front of them we are undisguised. The second point is passion. Love of course includes sexual attraction. We are driven by hormones and dopamine to be attracted. Probably this process happens in a really short time, and that is the reason why we start love. when you look at him/her, you feel butterflies in your stomach and the whole world is lit. Its also why we continue the love, passion adds uncertainty to our relationship and makes us wonder what will happen next. The last point is commitment. If passion is a representation of our human nature, then commitment is the opposite side of human nature. We all like beautiful boys and girls, but commitment makes me against my nature to not be attracted by other people. Its the determination to face difficulties together, no matter sickness or health, no matter poverty or wealth. If a relationship just has intimacy, thats friendship, if a relationship just has passion, thats probably a one night stand, if a relationship just has commitment, that will be arranged marriages even a burden we are carrying. A healthy and stable relationship is a combination of three of them. Intimacy, passion and commitment, these three things make love complete. Love is complicated, but still worthy of experience.in the end, i hope all of you guys can find your true love and always have the ablitity of love, carelfully but boadly at the same tim