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3.Losers

失败者

单词与词组Wordsandphrases

transition /??????????/ n. 转变

interdependence /???????????????/n.互相依赖

nutrition /??????????/ n.营养

inadequate /??????????/ n.不适当的

traumatic /??????????/ a.创伤的

deter /??????/ v. 阻止

autonomy /?????????/ n. 自主

actualization /????????????????/n. 实现

cope /????/ v. 处理

hangonto 紧紧握住

repress /???????/ v. 压制

channel /??????/ v. 引导

根据朗读标记，听录音跟读，然后背诵。

Althoughpeople︵areborntowin,theyare︵alsobornhelpless▼andtotallydependent︵ontheirenvironment.Winnerssuccessfullymakethetransitionfromtotalhelplessness↗▼toindependenceandthen↗▼tointerdependence.Losersdonot.Somewherealongtheline▼theybegintoavoidbecomingself-responsible.

Fewpeoplearetotalwinners↗orlosers.Most︵ofthemarewinners︵insomeareas︵oftheirlives▼andlosers︵inothers.Theirwinning↗orlosingisinfluenced▼bywhathappenstothem︵inchildhood.

Alack︵ofresponsetodependencyneeds,↗poornutrition,↗brutality,↗unhappyrelationships,↗disease,↗continuingdisappointments,↗inadequatephysicalcare,↗andtraumatic︵events↘▼areamongthemanyexperiences▼thatcontributetomakingpeoplelosers.Such︵experiencesinterrupt,↗deter,↗orpreventthenormalprogresstowardautonomy↗▼andself-actualization.Tocopewithnegativeexperiences▼achildlearnstomanipulatehimself︵andothers.Thesemanipulativetechniquesarehardtogiveup▼later︵inlifeandoftenbecomesetpatterns.Awinnerworkstoshedthem.Aloserhangs︵ontothem.

Aloserrepresseshiscapacity▼toexpressspontaneouslyandappropriatelyhisfullrange︵ofpossiblebehavior.Hemaybeunaware︵ofother︵optionsforhislife▼ifthepathhechoosesgoesnowhere.Heis︵afraidtotrynewthings.Hemaintainshis︵ownstatus.Heis︵arepeater.Herepeatsnot︵onlyhismistakes,but︵alsothose︵ofhisfamilyandculture.

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