EQ很重要：14个信号证明你的情商高.doc

EQ很重要：14个信号证明你的情商高 What makes some people more successful in work and life than others? IQ and work ethic are important, but they dont tell the whole story. Our emotional intelligence -- the way we manage emotions, both our own and those of others -- can play a critical role in determining our happiness and success. 是什么让某些人在工作和生活中比他人更成功呢？智商和职业道德固然重要，但却只是冰山一角。情商——也就是人们处理自己及他人情绪的方式，在幸福和成功上扮演着至关重要的角色。 Not sure how emotionally intelligent you are? Here are 14 signs you have a high EQ. 还不清楚自己的情商到底怎样？下面14个信号就告诉你：你其实拥有高情商！ 1. Youre curious about people you dont know. 你对不认识的人感到好奇。 Do you love meeting new people, and naturally tend to ask lots of questions after youve been introduced to someone? If so, you have a certain degree of?empathy, one of the main components of emotional intelligence. 你是不是喜欢结交新朋友、介绍后会忍不住问各种问题？如果这样，说明你具备一定的共鸣感——这是情商的一个重要因素。 2. Youre a great leader. 你是一个优秀的领导。 Exceptional leaders often have one thing in common. In addition to the traditional requirements for success -- talent, a strong work ethic and ambition, for instance -- they possess a high degree of emotional intelligence.The higher the rank of a person considered to be a star performer, the more emotional intelligence capabilities showed up as the reason for his or her effectiveness. 优秀领导通常都有一个共同点。除了禀赋、良好的职业道德和勃勃雄心等传统的成功品质，他们还有非常高的情商。一个人越是业绩斐然，其高效背后的情商也就越突出。 3. You know your strengths and weaknesses. 你清楚自己的优缺点。 A big part of having self-awareness is being honest with yourself about who you are -- knowing where you excel, and where you struggle, and accepting these things about yourself. An emotionally intelligent person learns to identify their areas of strength and weakness, and analyze how to work most effectively within this framework. “自知”很大部分就是要诚实面对自我——清楚知道自己擅长什么又不在行什么，然后接受这样的自己。情商高的人懂得看清自己的优缺点，然后在此基础上想办法做到最好。 4. You know how to pay attention. 你懂得如何集中注意力。 Do you get distracted by every tweet, text and passing thought? If so, it could be keeping you from functioning on your most emotionally