新视野大学英语视听说第2版Unit 4【荐】.pptVIP

Theme-related Activities interacting with your family members in a way that contributes to family harmony. It means that you are relating with your family in a kind and conscious manner, that you are demonstrating respect, that you are feeling respect for every family member. Now the problem is we usually think that how we relate to the people in our family depends on how our family members behave. But what you have to do is reverse that thinking if you want to act as family power. To achieve family power you have to be a leader. And leaders do it first, and leaders do it alone. That means that when your children seem totally bent on destroying the family harmony, or your spouse seems to completely ignore the importance of it because he or she is rushing around, behaving in a chaotic frenzied manner, losing patience, being critical, your responsibility is to do your best to not contribute to the chaos. And the way you do that is by preserving your own harmonious way of functioning in the family. Theme-related Activities No family is in harmony all the time. But the more harmonious your family life, the more empowered every member of your family is to function at your highest level; at their highest level. Start noticing your own habitual reactions. When you automatically react with anger and stress, with frustration and patience, you are creating an atmosphere in your home that undermines family power and therefore drains the family of family power. So keep in mind that you can’t really help yourself or any member of your family in any more important way than by relating consistently in a loving harmonious way with your family under all circumstances. And the bigger the trials, the bigger your challenges in life, the more you need to relate with your family in a loving way that supports family harmony even when it seems to be producing no results. Because it is that you are planting a seed, a seed that will bear fruit, the fruit of more family harmony and more