80后婚恋观的调查研究.docVIP

80后婚恋观的调查研究 ——以贵州省威宁县为个案研究? ? 王 曦 ? ? ? 摘 要 俗话说：婚姻好比鞋子，舒服不舒服只有脚知道。结了婚，一纸就定论了，要除去婚姻关系还得离婚，80后说试婚之后如果不合适可以反悔。纵观80后的婚恋观，不婚主义也在盛行，这一群人或为了自由，或为了享受爱情，抑或是无人合适宁缺毋滥。享受爱情——“我单身，但不独身；我有伴侣，但是不结婚。”这种状态已成为一些时尚人士之选。“我们有确定的关系，享受浪漫的爱情，可是结婚后就不一定有这么美好的生活了。”婚姻就是一张纸，不要这张纸，爱情美丽的光芒不会褪色。 有人说，“80后”婚姻现状令人担忧，传统的家庭关系将受到破坏；也有人说，在社会转型期，社会价值观趋向多元化，人们的婚恋观念也在发生天翻地覆的变化，婚姻也在寻求自己的“活法”，而80后则是更能听从自己声音的一代。 关键词：80后 婚恋观 调查研究 As the old saying goes: “Marriage can be compared to shoes, whether the shoes are suitable or not, just feet know it ”. After getting married, everything is determined by the marriage licence. Then if you want to get rid of the relationship of marriage, you have to divorce. After 80s say choosing companionate marriage, people can break up if they feel unsuitable. Surveying after 80s’ view on marriage, we can find many celibatarians, for freedom, love, and even some prefer lack to shoddy. Enjoy love---“I’m single, but I’m not celibate; I have my lover, but we will not get married.” , which is some modern people’s choice. They believe: “We are lovers, enjoying the romantic love. However, the marriage life maybe is not as wonderful as that at present. ” “Marriage is just the marriage licence, without which the glorious light of love will not fade. ” Some people say after 80s’ view on marriage makes many people worried, because the traditional family relationship will be destroyed by it. But some others say, with the change of the social value diversity, people’s view on marriage is also changing. At the same time, marriage is also pursuing its way to exist. And after 80s are the generation to take heed of their voices. Key words: after 80s’ view on marriage survey research 前 言 转眼间，从前人们认为“一直长不大”的80后，最大的已经迈入三十大关，有关婚姻，早已从梦想中的传说步入进残酷的现实。随着越来越多的“80后”成家，时髦说辞也跟着层出不穷，在主流婚恋观之外，除了“蜗婚”，还有“毕婚”、“闪婚”、“试婚”、“逼婚”、“不婚”等现象在80后中流行。 3秒钟可以爱上一个人；5分钟可以谈一场恋爱；7小时就可以确定终身伴侣……在这个追求效率的时代，就连恋爱婚姻的程序也可以变得更简单快捷。“闪婚”者盲目而快速地寻求感情上的慰藉，使得婚恋过程就像吃快餐一样，饱了就行，营养的事就顾不得了。在80后眼里，“日久生情”早已沦为陈词滥调，对于希望结婚的人来说，当然是谈恋爱时间越短