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我把父亲的骨灰撒在恒河 　　也许是因为当今社会变化太快，父子之间的隔阂似乎比过去更大了。当爹的觉得自己的娃不懂事、不守规矩、叛逆，而娃则认为自己的爹守旧、老套，与现实脱节。父子之间常常有一堵无形的、厚重的墙。有的时候，双方都努力了，但情况似乎未能有所好转。本文作者在过了不惑之年，与父亲阴阳相隔之后才对父亲的精神世界有了一点了解。在父亲节到来之际，这篇文章也许能让我们深思：也许领带、手机这些礼物，并不是父亲想要的。 　　Host： Most of us try not to think about death too often， at least if we don’t have to， but American surgeon and writer Atul Gawande has given a lot of thought to the matter. Gawande talks about seeing his own father， Ram Gawande， struggle with cancer. His father was a surgeon too， and he grew up in a farming village in rural India. Ram and his wife， also a doctor from India， raise