how_to_be_a_good_parent对话.doc

A:hi,（名字），you look so unhappy.what’s wrong? B:oh（做伤心状）,(名字)，I just thingking about some day I will be a mother/father,I ferd I can’t do this pefcet,I want be a good mother/father. A:don’t worry about that,I will give you some advice what will help you to be a good mother/father. B:wait,let me make notes.OK,go on.(假装拿本) A:the first, Provide unconditional love and encouragement to your child. Saying “I love you,” is important. But even more important is showing your child that you love them by giving your time and attention. Playing games, reading stories, and talking all show your love. Encouragement is also essential. Every child needs to feel like their parents are their best cheerleader. And with their parents help they can accomplish anything. I often tell my son you can do and be whatever you want and he believes me. B: “Provide unconditional love and encouragement to your child”(假装写本上) A: The second，Make your kids a high priority. This doesn’t mean that you don’t take care of yourself and your marriage. But it does mean that your children should come before others. This may mean that you need to say “no” sometimes. I have a hard time saying “no” and I often have to remind myself that if I say “yes” I will be placing my children lower on my priority list. B:“Make your kids a high priority.”（假装写）eh… ,ok,next. A: The third，Strengthen your team . Strengthening your team applies to parents. It means that parents agree beforehand on “important issues like rules and discipline.” They discuss together important decisions that need to be made concerning the children and family. B:“Strengthen your team”（依然假装写，你懂得） OK… A：The first four，Discipline consistently. To cultivate this quality of being a good parent is one of the hardest things to do. At the end of a hard day it is so easy to give in to a child that is crying or whining, but that is not consistent. It does not teach them and only makes your job as a parent more difficult. Set limits and rules and always enforce