英语,爱情和婚姻重点.ppt

Love and marriage lust , desire vs romantic love 10.01 ABC AA differentiate? [,d?f?r?n??et] 区分，区别 Synonym：distinguish/tell A from B 把A与B区分开 eg：A child may not differentiate between his imagination and the real world. 孩子也许无法区分想像与真实世界的差别。 lust → primarily physical ×↓ emotionalThey describe?lust?as primarily physical rather than emotional,?a condition that maybe conscious or unconscious.   他们把贪欲描述为身体上的而非情感上的兴奋，是一种有意识的或无意识的状态。 rather than 而不是；不是…而是…；与其说…不如说… eg：I, rather than you, should do the work. 该做这工作的是我，而不是你。 Synonym：instead of （用法不同 ） ★rather than do sth ★instead of sth /sb /diong sth eg：I would stay at home rather than go out. I would stay at home instead of going out. engage /?n?ɡe?d?/ V-I If you engage in an activity, you do it or are actively involved with it. 从事 [正式] 例： I have never engaged in drug trafficking. 我从来没有从事过贩毒。 in contrast 与此相反；比较起来 Synonym：by comparison eg：In contrast, households only spent $140 on toys and games. 相反，家庭仅花费140美金在玩具和 游戏上面。 相关短语： in contrast to 与…对比；与…相反 in contrast with 与…形成对比；与… 相比 Desire may or may not lead to romantic love (which the authors equate with passionate or erotic love).?  性欲可能会成为或不会成为浪漫的爱情(作者把浪漫的爱情等同于充满激情或性欲的爱)。 equate with 使相等，使等同；同等相待： Synonym：even up 平均，拉平；扯平，使相等 eg：One should not equate wealth with happiness. 人们不应把财富等同于幸福。 Regan?and? Berscheid suggest that desire is an essential ingredient for initiating?and?maintaining romantic love 里根和波谢德认为：性欲是点燃并维持浪漫爱情的必要成分。 initiate [ ??n??ie?t ] translation vt.开始；创始；启蒙； n.创始人 adj.新加入的；启蒙的 synonym ：begin start originate eg: The trip was initiated by the manager of the community centre. 这次旅行由社区活动中心的经理发起。 If desire disappears,?a person is no longer said to be in a state of romantic love. 一旦性爱消失了，一个人就不能再说成是还处在浪漫恋情中。