2013年江苏省高考二轮复习强化训练36.docVIP

2013年江苏省高考二轮复习强化训练36 阅读下列短文，从每题所给的四个选项（A、B、C和D）中，选出最佳选项，并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。 A I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention，and especially if it’s given from the．When people are talking，there’s no need to do anything but them．Just take them 39 ．Listen to what they’re saying．Care about it．Most times caring about it is even more important than 40 it． One of my patients told me that when she to tell her story，people oftento tell her that they had once had something just like what happened to her．Subtly，her pain became a story about themselves． she stopped talking to most people．We connect through listening．When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand．we move the of attention to ourselves．But when we listen，they know we care． I have ever learned to to someone crying by just listening．n the old days I used to reach for the handkerchiefs, until I realized that passing a person a handkerchief may be just another way to shut him down, to take them out of t heir experience of sadness. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them. This simple thing has not been that easy to learn．It certainly went against everything I had been since I was very young at school．I thought people listened only because they were too to speak or did not know the answer．A loving silence often has far more to heal than the kindest words．What does the author valued most in the communication with each other? A．Deep understanding. B．Saying “I’m sorry.” C．Attention from heart. D．Doing nothing. 57．The woman patient stopped telling her story to most people because . A．she didn’t get enough respect from others B．she was discouraged by being often interrupted C．people often told her their own opinions D．people couldn’t understand her sad situation 58．If you hand a handkerchief to someone