Premaritalagreement.ppt

Premarital agreement第二小组 Let’s begin with a story When we were children, sleepless at night, our mothers always have some good stories which sent us to sweet dreams. Among those stories, there must be a story about Prince and Princess which ended with” From then, Prince and Princess live happily”. Now, our Prince and Princess get a problem: they must have the premarital agreement signed before their wedding. You will say “you are joking!” , but it is real. With the development of our society, more and more couples think premarital agreements or prenups— are essential. Let’s begin with a story I admit that prenups provide a relatively appropriate solution for distribution of property after divorce. At least, they needn’t hurt each other in court due to the money. To some extent, breaking up peacefully is more acceptable. Meanwhile, prenups may save the marriage in some other ways. For example, if both of couples think twice when faced with the other’s status of property, they could make a more rational decision. On the other hand, taking prenups seriously also shows the responsibilities of both of the couples. Just promise her or him a better future! But I also want to insist that if two people have truly love, what should they think about more is the “home” they have together 脑海中的婚姻 曾经以为婚姻是两个人的事情,小时候,我们的故事里也是常常如是说:王子和公主从此过着幸福快乐的生活,但在今天,在大多数人的眼里,或许王子和公主在签了婚前协议后,才过上了幸福快乐的生活才显得更为合理?恰当而且是安全的完满结局.?这是怎样的一种讽刺～想想以后,当我们这样所谓现实地告诉我们的孩子时,那会是怎样一种境况?让我们受伤的不仅仅是孩子迷惑不解的眼神,我想,更多的是,我们自己.在这里,并不是孩子的纯真让我们有一丝的底气不足,而是我们对自己认为的所谓的成长有了一点怀疑了吧 有人说,这是做为自己的爱情买个保险,谁也说不准结婚后会不会有离异的一天,到时候算起帐来就明白多啦.这就叫先小人,后君子.在当今这个物欲横流的世界里,多一层保障总是好的.但是,我却不能理解.即使你说我是一个传统的中国男生,我也是这么认为.许多人总是喜欢把一切东西物化.精神的东西在现实中似乎都变得不那么可靠,只有双手能触及的才是真实的,就连爱情和婚姻也不能幸免.但是,这样做就真的能给爱情保险加固吗?如果有那么多的时间来考虑变故后利益的保障,为什么不多花一点好好地塌塌实实地珍惜和维系好彼此的感情呢?当我们之所以称之为人所拥有的情感也能靠一张白纸来制约时,活着又有什么意义?既然一切都是那么不可信,那还有什么是可以让我们依靠的呢?如果两个人的情感真的到了无法挽回的地步,就算你靠着那张白纸得到了所谓的保障,那又能说明什么?是在叹息已经失去感情的同时,还能够庆幸西方文明的新玩意给我们带来的一点物质上补偿的先见之明吗? 也有人说,这跟婚前审查没什么两样啊?审查的是身体,协议的是财产.既然身体的审