忧郁人格(国外英文资料).doc

忧郁人格(国外英文资料) Melancholy personality?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ? Fear of being yourself????? The somber is afraid to spin, tends to turn around, and they do everything they can to eliminate the distance between them, as close as possible to others and to keep others around. ????????? They are passive, modest, dependent, compassionate, selfless, unselfish, afraid of being isolated. Afraid to be yourself is their greatest fear. ? Depressive personality traits: Dependence, affiliated, afraid to become independent ego, is willing to surrender themselves to, at the mercy of others, to question their competence, no sense of belonging, no sense of security; Humility, peace of mind, selflessness, compassion, empathy; Be strong in endurance; Be humble, never ask for anything; To obey, to cooperate with one hundred percent, and to sacrifice oneself, and to exaggerate the servility of the slave; Fear of isolation, separation, abandonment, protection and loneliness. ? Depression personality diagnosis:?? ??????????????? Like an ostrich, he buried his head in the sand of the abyss of life, believing that he was a good man. The sense of dependence? A depressed person is as close to others as possible, and stays with others, and is safe and afraid of being abandoned. ? ????? Create intimacy????? Fear of loss, leading the personality of melancholy, he fears being isolated, detached, abandoned, unprotected and lonely. ???? Altruism????? In order to create a harmonious and intimate, never boring the melancholy personality will hard training yourself with altruism spirit: modesty, at any time to give up their favorite things, silence, selflessness, compassion, empathy, so no one can replace his position. ???? Self-pity??????????? The melancholy personality will push themselves should be responsible to the outward, blame the hateful world, his distress, formality, and fear all the blame In fate, fate stepped, makes him become bad g