人际吸引与爱情.ppt

Close Relationships  and Love Interpersonal Attraction the need to form close interpersonal bonds with others is a fundamental part of human nature. the closest relationship is with a romantic partner. Physical Attraction Relationship factors Situational factors What predicts Interpersonal Attraction?  Physical attraction The consistency of facial attractiveness eg. Prominent cheekbones, thin eyebrows, big eyes… Explanation for the physical attractiveness effect aesthetic appeal ‘what is beautiful is good’ greater social skills social profit The value of resources men: physical attraction women: wealth, ambitiousness, character, status… Relationship factors Similarity attitudes, values, interests, demographic characteristics Complementarity different qualities can eventually cause irritation Reciprocity mutual exchange between two people Situational factors  Proximity more exposure Physiological arousal excitation transfer Contrast effect potential partner What is love ? Passionate-companionate model Triangular theory Love styles theory Theories about love Passionate-companionate model Passionate-companionate model Triangular theory Love styles theory Passionate love Passionate love is an intense, exciting, and all-consuming type of love. Passionate love describes your first crush and initial stages of love in new relationships ---- when you can’t get the person out of your mind. Companionate love Companionate love is a more stable, clam, and dependable type of love. Companionate love describes the type of love people have in very long-term relationships. Just for fun Triangular theory Love styles theory Composite face Aesthetic appeal of face Attractive people are rated as higher in intelligence and social competence, and have better lives. Attractive people possess greater social skills, so they may be more fun to be around. 网络上的段子 五十年代喜欢工人， 六十年代喜欢干部， 七十年代喜欢军人， 八十年代喜欢诗人， 九十年代喜