为人处事的方法和原则（The methods and principles of doing things）.doc

为人处事的方法和原则（The methods and principles of doing things） It is a lifelong compulsory course for everyone to do things, especially for young people in todays society where communication is frequent and interpersonal relationships are complex. Cloud guest small pavilion for friends to provide a comprehensive how to do things, methods, principles, knowledge, the right to make a brick. Sincerely wish the friends interpersonal handy! 1, about the trouble of others: not trouble yourself, that is sure to trouble others. 2, on the question of their own benefit: not beneficial to yourself, that is beneficial to others. So try not to be too troublesome, others do not bother yourself too much. Be good for yourself as well as for others. The secret of doing things is probably how to adjust the balance. 3, reserve opinions: excessive dispute useless, and also lose self-control. Usually, should not be eager to show their attitude or opinion, let people elusive. A prudent silence is a wise avoidance. 4, know yourself: promote your most outstanding talent, and cultivate other aspects. As long as you understand your strengths and grasp them, then everyone will be prominent in something. 5, no exaggeration: exaggeration is detrimental to truth, and it is easy to make people doubt your views. The wise man restrained himself, showed his cautious manner, spoke concisely and never raised himself in any way. A high valuation is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very bad influence on your relationships. Beneath you and elegance and wit. 6, to adapt to the environment: the survival of the fittest, dont spend too much energy on errands, to maintain good relations among colleagues. Dont flaunt yourself every day, or others will feel boring to you. People must always feel strange. People who show up every day will keep people waiting and not hide your talents. 7, learn from each other: learn other peoples strengths, make up for their deficiencies. In dealing with friends,