如何掌握说话技巧（How to master the speaking skills）.docVIP

如何掌握说话技巧（How to master the speaking skills） Speak very learned, the same thing, the same words, reverse order, adjust the tone, or change the occasion, etc., will achieve different results, and then the small series together to learn how to speak skills. Tools / raw materials are developed Methods / steps Praise actions, not individuals. For example, if the other party is a cook, do not say, you are a wonderful cook.. He knew more chefs were better than him. But if you tell him you have half a week to eat in his restaurant, thats a great compliment. Express compliments through the third. If the other side is indirectly heard by others you praise, than you tell me more of a surprise. On the contrary, if it is to criticize each other, never told through third parties, to avoid sex. Polite remarks should be said just right. Polite words thank you, so we should not overdo sth.. Someone has done a little for you, and you just say thank you. Excuse me, Im sorry to trouble you.. As for the please exhibitions have little talent and less learning. This kind of lack of politeness can be avoided. Its better to say thank you to someone elses compliment. When most people are praised, they will probably answer, OK.! Or with a smile. Instead of accepting and saying directly to each other, thank you. Sometimes the other person praises our dress or something, and if you say, its just a bargain.! Instead, they embarrass each other. Appreciate the competitors generous. When your opponent or unpleasant person is praised, do not rush to say, but........ Even if you dont agree with each other, youll have to say, Yeah, he works hard.. Show your magnanimity. Criticism also depends on the relationship. Advice is harsh, even if you are well intentioned, the other may not appreciate, and even misunderstand your kindness. Dont criticize unless you have a certain friendship or trust foundation with you. Criticism can be pleasant. The more easily accepted version is about you....... Well, I have