和妹子聊天的技巧（Chatting with my sister）.doc

和妹子聊天的技巧（Chatting with my sister） How girl chat is the door of knowledge, so how to seize the girl heart or at least not awkward talking? The following is my summary of skills, if it can help you, it is my pleasure: The first layer of skills. Pay attention to the chat itself, rather than chat topics, many people do not know how to chat with girls, often talking, there is no topic, and I think: Chatting doesnt have to prepare a topic at all! Topic based chat: When we chat, we always want to focus on what we think before, without paying attention to the chat itself: So we often have the following situations: Give an example： Me: have you eaten yet? (raise a topic) MM: Yes Me: what are you doing? (asking for a topic again) MM: surfing the Internet Me: how is your weather? (asking for a topic again) MM: Yes Me: have you been busy lately? (asking for a topic again) MM: no hurry I：。。。。 (theres no point to talk about, because the topic is always finished.) Me: Oh, well, I just wanted to call you and ask what you were doing, so keep busy. Bye bye MM: bye bye! Because whats in your mind at the moment, what should I say? Whats the topic of conversation with MM? This often leads to a dead end, and when youve prepared your topic, youll find yourself dumb! And the correct chat idea is: to pay attention to the chat itself, rather than the topic of chat, not talking about what the problem, but how to talk about the problem Keywords French chat: Give an example Me: have you eaten yet? (raise a topic) MM: Yes Me: what do you eat? (triggered by keyword eating) MM: beef noodles! Me: did you make it yourself? (triggered by keyword rice) MM: I cant cook and Ill buy it Me: you can not cook well, a girl, every family, even the rice can not do, see how you marry out (by keywords will not cook, lead to new keywords marry) MM: I dont want to. Mom used to do it Me: it used to be. Now its now. Youve grown up. Girls need to learn how to cook. When youre a wife, dont you cook? (triggered by keyw