心理学家谈正确的恋爱方式（Psychologists talk about the right way to love）.docVIP

心理学家谈正确的恋爱方式（Psychologists talk about the right way to love） Psychologists talk about the right way to love The success of a relationship is not to see whether it is still holding hands, but from the emotional quality. In many cases, holding hands doesnt mean success. Breaking up doesnt mean failure. The key is to see if you have completed two important mental tasks in this relationship - do you know more about your needs, and if you have learned to love someone else?. The reverse of love should not be hatred, but should be forgotten; why does some peoples love become hate, and can not be forgotten, it is because he is in love, lack of self-confidence...... In love, we need to accomplish two important psychological tasks: first, to know yourself better. In addition to the concept of self perception, let the two sexes love themselves more fully and clearly. Two, cultivate our love ability. Since I was a little used to being loved, I began to learn to love. To see if a man is a good man has three benchmarks: responsibility, respect and stability. Responsibility means that he is responsible for what he has said. Respect means that he can respect his or her other half. That is what we usually say. You establish a partnership with him, and you approach each other on an equal basis. In addition, he must be a stable person. Some people are prone to big ups and downs, and it is difficult for such people to maintain a long-term relationship. Thats just a good mans benchmark. If we take the conditions and then drive up into a fine man, also can be summarized as the so-called benchmark of two minds. First of all, the first heart is fun. He should be a cheerful person, which will make people who are with him feel happy too. The second heart is concerned. Caring means thoughtfulness. Its easy for all girls to understand. The third mind is empathy. What is empathy? Its the ability to put yourself in someone elses shoes. Empathy is the source of respect and the most important abil