南通婚事习俗（The marriage custom in Nantong）.doc

南通婚事习俗（The marriage custom in Nantong） Marriage customs in Nantong Nantong post hair grass life daughter, called the girl, goes: girl to take. The old is the girl in the early teens, parents too early for her daughter to her husbands family, active support media. Matchmaker is an indispensable part of marriage between old men and women. No media is difficult to marry, at that time, people used the rules of thought. C. L# O (z% {3 x% r* s (a* ^# @ R* Z8 u? Looking for her husbands family, the first daughter birthday to write on a piece about a were wide and two were long pink paper, pink paper folded into double reverse shaped posts so as grass, another red g grass posts. The girls birthday horoscope is written on the head, and the lunar calendar, the month, the day and the hour are both indispensable. Word count is limited to sixteen words, not more than the moment. Back around two for three thousand years, said: eight hundred days in spring and autumn; reclamation, good luck in everything. Then fold it in square shape and wrap it with a sheet of red paper outside. After the initial satisfaction felt in both parents, a woman asked the man to the media by the post hair grass. $t, S-, B5, Z6, R,, B, K, Q, H9, J8, F8, C Early in the morning, the matchmaker took the grass post from the woman, no relatives and friends sitting along the way, not talking to others, straight to the man, already open the lobby room, waiting for the matchmaker to come. The matchmaker is not with the man of the house approached, will the grass in front of the shrine under pressure for incense, neither sit prodigiously, dont eat not to drink, then hurried back. The purpose of this total of both the miscellaneous language taboo gossip next door neighbours, if without predestined relationship, afraid to make people laugh, and damage the girls reputation. The man received grass posts within three days, no evil quarrel at home, students in disaster, the cat jumping, dog howling inauspicious event,