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黄帝内经白话文（Huangdi Neijing vernacular） Correct treatment of children aged 2-3 rebellion period Many parents have this experience: two or three children to begin to not listen, and parents often talk back, ironic, temper. At the age of three, Almost all the children will be continued for half a year to one year of resistance, this resistance is a necessary stage of childrens psychological development, psychological School known as the first period of resistance. Outstanding performance is: the psychological development of the seeds appear independent, self consciousness began to develop a strong curiosity, self The Lords desire, love to do their own thing, do not want others to interfere in their operations, once the opposition and stop being parents, it is easy to Ironically, the phenomenon to produce. Resistance is not necessarily bad habits Experts have done such a study: two to five years old children were divided into two groups, a group of resistance is strong, another group of less resistance. Result Found that the resistance is strong in children, 80% grow up strong independent ability to judge; resistance weaker children, grow up to only 24% Enough self acting, but independent ability to judge what is still relatively weak, often rely on others. Therefore, experts believe that the rebellion sometimes means The children have their independent thinking, without intervention are not disposable, this is a good time for child development judgment, it is the parents attention. If only Only ask the child to obey you, so naturally it is difficult to develop his judgment. So, for two or three to six years old children, the fight is not what bad habits. But why do the parents can not break the shackles of tradition, the courage to Accept the idea of children, and even allow him to disagree with you? Probably because of the so-called self-esteem, face the problem! If you want to That childs resistance is not a rebel, but an expression of his own way, you will not let your