既然能对自己宽容何不给他人多一点耐心（双语）.doc

既然能对自己宽容?何不给他人多一点耐心（双语） ? It is curious that our own offenses should seem so much less?heinous than the offenses of others. I suppose the reason is that we know all the circumstances that have occasioned them and so manage to excuse in ourselves what we cannot excuse in others. 让人奇怪的是，和别人的过错比起来，我们自身的过错往往不显得那样糟糕。我想，其原因应该是我们知晓一切导致自己犯错的情况，因此能够设法谅解自己的错误，而别人的错误却不能谅解。 We turn our attention away from our own defects, and when we are forced by untoward events to consider them, find it easy to condone them. For all I know we are right to do this; they are part of us and we must accept t