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HIS NEEDS HER NEEDS FIFTEENTH ANNIVERSARY EDITION HIS NEEDS HER NEEDS Building an Affair-Proof Marriage Willard F. Harley, Jr. r © 1986, 1994, 2001 by Willard F. Harley, Jr. Published by Fleming H. Revell a division of Baker Book House Company P.O. Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287 Fifth printing, October 2002 Printed in the United States of America All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—for example, electronic, photocopy, recording—without the prior written permission of the publisher. The only exception is brief quotations in printed reviews. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Harley, Willard F. His needs, her needs : building an affair-proof marriage / Willard F. Harley, Jr.—15th anniversary ed. p. cm. ISBN 0-8007-1788-0 1. Marriage—United States. 2. Communication in marriage—United States. 3. Married people—United States—Psychology. I. Title. HQ734.H285 2001 306.810973—dc21 00-067324 ISBN 0-8007-5779-3 (intl. pbk.) Scripture quotations are taken from the HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®. NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House. All rights reserved. For current information about all releases from Baker Book House, visit our web site: To Joyce— my one and only CONTENTS Preface to the 15th Anniversary Edition 9 Introduction 15 1. How Affair-Proof Is Your Marriage? 17 2. Why You