典型问题家庭的七大共性（Typical problems; the seven general characteristics of the family）.docVIP

典型问题家庭的七大共性（Typical problems; the seven general characteristics of the family） Typical problems; the seven general characteristics of the family Over the years, I have found that problem families cause problem children as a universal phenomenon, which has a lot in common: First, parents of high expectations and high expectations of children, resulting in children without upward mobility, breeding weariness, tension between parents; Second: the economic conditions are good, and constantly meet the material needs of children, leading to loss of life goals, loss of life fun; Third: parents love the child, eager to arrange all children, deprived of child responsibility, causing the child to lose responsibility and self centred; Fourth: attention to parent-child relationship, ignoring the relationship between husband and wife, hidden trouble for marriage, leading to discord between husband and wife, and even divorced; Fifth: the importance of children intellectual development, cultivate children despise virtue, cause the child cleverness without wisdom, talent away from love; Six: kindergarten to primary school is not a good transition, there is a small convergence problems, children do not adapt to the education system, resulting in childrens psychological problems, and lay a hidden danger for future studies and life; Seven: parents dont understand education also responsible, cause the child out of the question, the parents can not in their own, also continue to blame the child has a problem! .. I often and parents said: there is a parents must bring the child a good education, they are understand education, responsible type of parents, and a parent, as in 70s 60, parents could educate their children, they do not understand education, less responsible the parents, the most terrible is that parents described above, they are not understand education, special responsibility! The parents China thousands on thousands of families in basically all is do not understand educatio