学会一个人生活与自己相处.docxVIP

在生活中似乎一直都有人告诉我们，合作是金。就像俗语说的那样“三个臭皮匠顶个诸葛亮”，人越多，力量越大。但其实一个人很需要独处的空间，让自己沉静下来，才能发现心底深处真实而自我的声音。In life seems to have been told us, cooperation is the gold. As the saying goes that Two heads are better than one, the / more people, the more powerful. But in fact, a person really need the space alone, let himself calm down, to discover the true self heart sound.琳达的成长过程似乎完美地诠释了这一状态。而且很多年来都是这样：她读大学的时候，和另外七个非常亲密的闺蜜住在一所房子里。当然，就像她预想的一样，那段日子是她一生中最美好的时光。无论是白天还是晚上，她总能找到一个朋友讲述自己突然兴起的念头，也能在想哭的时候找到一个肩膀依靠，更不用说晚上睡不着的时候也总会有个朋友陪着她一边吃零食一边看电影。这一切对于一个二十岁的女孩子来说真的是再美好不过了。The process of the growth of Linda seems to be the perfect interpretation of the state. But many years is this: when she read the University, and the other seven very intimate close friend live in a house. Of / course, just as she expected, in those days was the best time of her life. Whether it is day or night, she can always find a friend about his sudden whim, can find a shoulder to cry on, not to mention the time of night cant sleep will always have a friend to accompany her to eat snacks while watching the movie. All this for a girl of twenty years old is really better.当大学毕业后，琳达决定继续留在这座城市，而目送着好朋友们一个个离开的时候，她终于垂头丧气地意识到，这是她有生以来第一次将要一个人生活了。琳达搬进了市中心的一间单身公寓，鼓起勇气告诉自己，她已经做好了迎接被铺天盖地的孤独感所包围的生活。When the university after graduation, Linda decided to stay in the city, and watched the good friends leave, she finally / become dejected and despondent aware of, this is her first time in all ones born days will be the life of a person. Linda moved into a single apartment downtown, to summon the courage to tell her, she was ready to meet the surrounded by overwhelming loneliness of life.可事情非但没有琳达想象的那么糟糕，她甚至发现自己还爱上了一个人的生活。Things are not so bad, Linda thought, she even found himself also fell in love with a persons life.“独居”似乎是一件被普遍认为很糟糕的事情——尤其是由独居带来的孤独感和缺乏安全感。琳达开玩笑说，如果每当有人问她“这样的大都市里一个人住，你不觉得害怕吗？”她就攒一块钱的话，她就再也不用抱怨每个月得自己承担宽带的费用了。但是琳达却觉得，和自己做室友，也有着那么多吸引人的地方。Alone seems to be a generally considered bad thing -- especially from solitary bring lo