第一印象（First impression）.doc

第一印象（First impression） First, take the initiative to greet each other As the saying goes: a recovery, two times cooked.. For strangers, you start by saying hello to each other, which means you put them in a higher position. By courtesy of the enthusiastic attitude towards each other, must be able to pursue the communication. If you can look at the other persons eyes with confidence and honesty, you will impress each other. Two. Give a brief explanation of your name In memory, there is a method called memory association, a memory that connects one thing to another, and the first meeting uses this method to make others feel better about you. For example, you can say: I am surnamed Zhang, Zhang, Zhang Zhang Fei, not the chapter. In this way, the person will recognize your sense of humor and make it easier for you to remember you. Three, pay attention to your facial expression The inmost thoughts will form on the outside, in expressions. When people arrive at the meeting place, they often pay attention to the problem of dressing and dressing, but ignore the importance of expression. If you want to meet for the first time a good impression, may wish to take a look in the mirror, carefully check their facial expression is as not the same as usual, if too tight, the best first at herself in the mirror. Four, find common ground with each other Anyone seeking psychological, often imperceptibly by ethnic or peer intimate connection between consciousness, association, alumni such organization will come into being. If you can find some with each other with common, even the first meeting, will let each other in virtually have intimacy, once the psychological distance narrowed, both sides will be easy to talk. Five, understand each others interests, hobbies The person who meets for the first time, if can understand and use each others interest and hobby attentively, can shorten the distance of both sides, deepen each others good feeling. For example, talk about health and longevi