托福阅读之分手后不要做的事-智课教育旗下智课教育.pdfVIP

智 课 网 托 福 备 考 资 料 托福阅读之分手后不要做的事-智课教育旗下智课教育 托福阅读取高分的关键在于平时积累与练习，平常多阅读相关资料 ，日积月累，阅读水平想不提高都难。下面为大家推荐一些不错的托福 阅读背景资料，希望对各位考生备战托福阅读有所帮助。 推荐托福阅读材料之分手后不要做的事 Breakups. Even the most amicable of parting ways can sting. When mourning the end of a relationship, be sure to avoid the following donts of breakup etiquette. 分手了。即便是以最和平的方式还是会感到刺痛。在为一段关系的 结束而难过时，别忘了分手的规矩，千万别做下面这9件事。 1. Pretend youre fine. 假装你很好 Let yourself mourn. Cry. Punch a pillow. Journal. Surround yourself with friends who listen. The temptation may be to pretend youre unaffected by the breakup; dont let pride get in the way of being real. You dont have to sob at the office, but take some quiet moments to reflect and be honest with yourself. Its okay to be angry, hurt or humiliated. Its healthier to express yourself honestly than grow numb. 允许自己伤心、哭泣、摔打枕头、写日记、向周围的朋友倾诉。有 时候你也许想假装自己面对分手若无其事;别让 自尊心掩盖了真实的自己 。不是说让你在办公室啜泣，但是可以静一静 ，给 自己点时间坦诚地面 对自己。感觉愤怒、痛苦或羞愧都是正常的。和伪装麻木相比 ，真诚地 表现 自我更健康。 2. Try to be just friends. 试着做 “普通朋友” Very rarely can a breakup lead to a solid friendship, and until youre okay with the idea of your ex dating someone new, youre not ready to be pals. 分手后的情侣很少有能成为真正的朋友，直到你可以接受前任另寻 新欢了，在此之前你们并没有准备好成为朋友。 Create intentional space for a while and let yourself mourn the end of the relationship. If your ex is pushing for friendship, stand your ground if youre uncomfortable with the idea. Right now, youre not looking for a friend who looks exactly like the person who broke your heart. 刻意保持一段时间的距离 ，允许自己为这段关系的结束而伤心。如 果前任想要和你做朋友，而这让你感到不悦 ，就坚持 自己的立场。现在 你并不需要和一个曾经伤了你的心的人做朋友。 3. Seek revenge. 寻求报复 Dont key his car, kidnap his cat, or destroy his stuff. And never, ever do something that could land you in legal trouble. (If you share the lease, deal with it like responsible adults. Dont lock him out.) 别刮花他的车 ，绑架他的猫 ，或者破坏他的东西。而且千万千万不 要做那些可能给你带来法律上麻烦的事情。(如果你们之前共同租房 ，像 一个负责人的成年人那样去处理这个问题。别把他锁