批评教育孩子（Criticism, education, children）.docVIP

批评教育孩子（Criticism, education, children） Criticism as a means of education, the purpose is to let the child know the cause of the error, and later can avoid or correct. But in fact, many parents have this experience, and children to speak well, talk about the truth does not work, criticism does not work, anxious to play a meal is still useless, how to do the effect is not good! Anyway, its no use talking or scolding! Beat the pipe! Now its time for parents to think about it. How do you manage to make a mistake? How to educate children? Should we criticize if we are wrong? 1. Useless criticism, let us first look at the phenomenon of parents criticized the child with characteristics (1) criticism is emotional Once the child mistakes, parents tend to be emotional, pale, dancing, murmuring, eyes, voice, language fast, while it is a dangerous situation, fully and delightfully! Well, finished, scolded, and the heart is also happy, but also balanced. And you may not know, when the family grow up to spend time, most of the childrens mind is calculated: now is scolded half.! Just a little more patience, and soon its all over.! The parents suddenly stopped and asked when the children shouted: do you understand? The child immediately reflected, yes, I do.! Remember yet? Remember!! Will you still commit crimes later? No!! It was so nice and elaborate just to put an end to the storm. If there is a video camera, the parents look at their facial expressions and performance, really can not bear to see ah! And what the child says to you is often not to be able to fall back, just do not know what you have said at all. Just one thing: I was wrong, so you called me names! Even the guilt and uneasiness of the mistake vanished with the roar of criticism. Because they understand a little, and then scold, general will be fine! The only thing that children do and are interested in is waiting, waiting for the end of the blame! The end result is take the heart out of your mouth, you scold me, a