失恋的心理调节（Lovelorn psychological adjustment）.docVIP

失恋的心理调节（Lovelorn psychological adjustment） Lovelorn psychological adjustment (please patiently read) Love is wonderful, but when a love come to an end, the two sides have fallen in love how to resolve conflicts, peace break up, how to adjust their attitude after the breakup, the people around to help get rid of the plight of these couples, both emotional problems, and the knowledge and technical problem. Here, we will make a psychological analysis of these problems and provide some technical help for them. First, choose a reasonable way to break up When you find that the other person is not your ideal lover, of course, ask for a break in love. But even if there are enough reasons to interrupt love, it should also pay attention to the way, in love should be sincere, put forward to interrupt the love should also be sincere, put forward to interrupt the love method, mainly has the following three kinds: 1, interview - in this way should pay attention to: Select the appropriate place, if the other strong character, possessive, we should try to choose a public place, and avoid in remote places. First, sure each other in love for love and care of their own, or take as method of curses, abusive, will provoke each others hatred, conflicts. Not to leave the other is irresolute and hesitant, fantasy, that is on the other side of the torture, will remain hidden, give yourself the chaos of so-called indecisive when decision is needed. This is very important. 2. Express your attitude through letters. This method has more leeway, and the wording can be more calm and appropriate. 3, seek intermediary help, use this way to pay attention to: Intermediary is also know and understand each other, it is better to trust each other, but also very respected people, you can take the opportunity to enlighten them, comfort. Do not give the other feeling that you are damaging his dignity and his reputation everywhere. Since breaking up, it is necessary to leave some room for both sides, it is