《社交礼仪心理学》阅读笔记（Social etiquette psychology reading notes）.docVIP

《社交礼仪心理学》阅读笔记（Social etiquette psychology reading notes） Social etiquette psychology reading notes The first impression is very important. It takes only 3 minutes to make a first impression, and the first 45 seconds are the most important. Pay special attention to smiling, shaking hands, looking at each other, walking, greeting and dressing up. Shake hands: not too random when shaking hands. Handshake scores in order: the general first elder, later junior, first teacher, after student, first lady, after the man, first married unmarried, first higher level, lower level. Handshake: handshake to salute was about 1 meters away from each other, legs straight, body slightly forward, stretched out his right hand, four fingers together, thumb out grips with each other. When shaking hands with moderate, up and down slightly shake three or four times, then let go of restitution. When the elders shake hands with the younger generation, the elderly generally stretch their hands first; when a man shakes his hand with a lady, the woman reaches out first. People who want to express themselves (free and easy) will make a good first impression on others and help to know more friends. A smile has a tendency to show obedience, and it helps to get a good working relationship. The distinction between smile and fake to see whether there are wrinkles, crows feet and laugh really will not smile, only a smile from the heart to human infection. Smiles have overwhelming appeal. Greeting: by making an active greeting, you can make yourself more attractive and charming. The message of greeting is I have you in my eye.. When you have someone in your eyes, you will have it in other peoples heart. Take the initiative to say hello is not humble, but that you broad-minded, positive attitude towards life, enthusiasm, confidence. Active greeting can create a good environment and build good relationships. In the other party or what activities, should pay special attention to the neglected people (care)