人际交往能力（Interpersonal skills）.docVIP

人际交往能力（Interpersonal skills） How can introverts improve their interpersonal skills quickly? When a person lacks a certain ability, the first thing to think about is to learn the skills in this field, and think that with skills, you can improve your ability in that field. In fact, a persons ability in some areas is insufficient, more important is the problem of ideas, because there is no set up the right faith. If you dont change your mind and set your right beliefs, even learning more skills is useless. For example, when someone is too introverted and has a bad relationship, he tries to learn interpersonal skills. Having learned some smiles, listening, compliments, gratitude, remembering names, etc., thinking that these skills can improve relationships. But the situation is not that simple. The master of human relations tells us to be loving. But too much love will make you accommodate each other and tolerate each other. There is a limit to human tolerance. When you tolerate a certain degree of patience, there will be a total outbreak, which in turn undermines your relationship with others. Good relationships need courage as well as love. Love makes you care for each other, courage gives you courage to express yourself. Only the balance of love and courage can lead to good interpersonal relationship. (a) Many introverts fail to have good relationships, not only for lack of love, but also for lack of courage. So its not helpful for them to learn the interpersonal skills of Carnegie and other masters. So where does courage come from? Just as a person needs personal confidence and self-confidence in order to achieve personal success, a person should have good interpersonal relationship, trust others, and have trust in others. Some people often in childhood by the parents, the teachers criticism, reprimand, or corporal punishment, or students, partners, bullying, deception, therefore has not been able to develop a sense of trust in others, and people do not want to grow