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与身边人更好相处的10个重要原则1. Model behavior.The most important thing you can do to convert others to your ideas is to be the best model possible. Walk the walk, and do it visibly, so others can see what you’re doing. This goes for your spouse, for your kids, for family and friends, for co-workers. Just showing how to do it can be a powerful tool indeed. Declutter your life, live more simply, and you’ll go a long way to converting others.1.榜样的力量. ????? 尽可能的做一个好榜样是尤为重要的，你能做的就是让别人相信你的观点。走自己的路，正大光明，所以别人才能够看到你做的。这样做是为了你的配偶，孩子，家庭，朋友以及同事。事实上，如何做到这一点可能要好好思量。好好生活，更简单的生活。去改变别人，你还有很长一段路要走。 2. Share how important it is to you, and the benefits. This is really the second part of being a role model: as you start to live the simple life, show others how great it is to you, how important a part of your life this is. Talk with them about it, and tell them why you’re doing this. When people understand your motivation, they can start to get on board, or at least stop feeling so threatened. And when they see how great it is for you, how happy it makes you and all the great things it brings into your life, they’ll move closer and closer to your way.2.于你而言，分享是非常重要且有利的。 ???? 这是成为一个真正的榜样的第二步：对你而言，当你开始过上简单的日子，告诉其他人这样的日子是多么的精彩，这演的日子是多么的重要。与他们谈论这件事，并且告诉他们你这样做的目的是什么。一旦他们理解了你的目的，他们开始赞同你，至少不会再感到威胁。当他们看到你的日子如此精彩，你是如此快乐，它给你的生活带来了如此多的美好事物。他们会越来认同你的方法。 3. Ask for help. One of the first things I did with Eva was ask for her support. Not just her consent, but her physical help. I confessed that I can’t do it on my own and I need her. Many people, if they truly care about you, want to help you. They want you to be happy, and if you tell them how they can help you succeed, they’ll do their best. If possible, make simplifying a team effort — not just something you’re doing, but something you’re all doing together. And make it fun!3.寻求帮助. ??? 我与女儿Eva相处，首要的是寻求她的支持。不仅仅是她口头上的赞同，而是她实际的帮助。我承认我不能独立完成一些事，所以我需要她的帮助。很多人，如果他们真的关心你，这些人都是想帮助你的。他们想要快乐，如果你告知他们什么方法能够助你成功的话，他们将会全力以赴。如果可能，使团队的付出更加简单，不仅仅是你正在做的一些事情，而是所有的事大家一