寻找你生命中的爱.ppt

寻找你生命中的爱FINDING THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE 选择正确婚姻伴侣的十原则 Ten Principles For Choosing the Right Marriage Partner Larry Gee医生 Dr Larry Gee Finding the Love of Your Life By Dr Neil Clark Warren This book was used by permission of author for much of this lecture Key Questions?? 重点问题 Who Am I? 我是谁？ Why Am I here? 我为什么到这儿来？ Where Am I going? 我要去哪儿？ Can I get there by myself or do I need a guide? 我能自己到哪儿去吗？还是需要一个向导？ Most People all over World Want to Get Married全世界大部分人都愿意结婚 Survey of Chinese intellectuals: 88 percent of the respondents said they want to get married and 96 percent regarded marriage as a very important part of life. 对中国知识分子进行的调查表明：88%的受调查者愿意结婚， 96%的受调查者认为婚姻是生活中极其重要的一部分。 A staggering 99.8 percent of surveyed female M.A.s surveyed saidthey did not want to remain single 高达99.8%的受调查的女性硕士承认自己不原继续保持独身. 93 percent want to have children to form integrated families. Many thought children brought happiness and love to family life. 93%的受调查者希望能组成完整的家庭, 很多人认为孩子可以为家庭带来幸福和爱. Why Marriage Matters婚姻为什么重要 Marriage is an important social good, associated with an impressively broad array of positive outcomes for children and adults alike. 婚姻是一种重要的社会积极因素, 对儿童和成年人生活的方方面面都具有极大的积极影响. 1.? Marriage increases the likelihood that fathers have good relationships with their children. 婚姻关系增加了父亲与孩子建立良好关系的可能性. 2. Cohabitation is not the functional equivalent of marriage 同居者建立的家庭并不能发挥等同于婚姻家庭的作用. Why Marriage Matters婚姻为什么重要 3. Growing up outside an intact marriage increases the likelihood that children will themselves divorce or become un-wed parents. 一个不是在完整的婚姻家庭之中长大的孩子成人后更具有更大的离婚或成为同居父母的可能性 4. Marriage is a virtually universal human institution 婚姻实质上是一种人类社会的普遍制度 5. Divorce and unmarried childbearing increase poverty for both children and mothers. 离婚和非婚生育会加重母亲和其子女的贫困 Why Marriage Matters婚姻为什么重要 Why Marriage Matters婚姻为什么重要 9. Parental divorce reduces the likelihood that children will graduate from college and achieve high-status jobs. 父母