穿井得一人的启示.doc

穿井得一人的启示 “I love you”,mean it.无论何时说“我爱你”，请真心实意　　 you say”Im sorry”,look the person right in the eyes.无论何时说“对不起”，请看着对方的眼睛　　 in love at first sight.相信一见钟情　　 ignore someones dreams.永远不要忽视别人的梦想　　 deeply and passionately,you may get hurt,but this is the only way to live life completely.深情热烈地爱，也许你会受伤，但这是使人生完整的惟一方法　　（解决、处理）any disagreements in a clean manner,do not offend,用一种明确的方法解决争议，不要冒犯　　 judge a person based on their relatives.永远不要以一个人有什么样的亲戚来评价这个人　　 slowly,but think fast.慢慢地说，但要迅速地想　　 someone asks you something you dont want to answer,smile and ask”why do you want to know”?当别人问你不想回答的问题时，笑着说，“你为什么想知道？”　　 that the deepest love and the greatest achievements are the ones bearing the most risk.记住那些敢于承担最大风险的人，才能得到最深的爱和最大的成就　　 your you cant,at least think of her.给妈妈打电话如果不行，至少在心里想着她　　 you happen to lose,do not miss the lesson.如果你失败了，千万不要忘记吸取教训　　 the 3 Rs:Respect yourself Respect everyone else,and be Responsible for all of your actions.记住三个“尊”：尊重你自己；尊重别人；保持尊严，对自己的行为负责　　 not allow a little dispute to put an end to a great friendship.不要让小小的争端损毁了一段伟大的友谊　　 you notice youve made a mistake,do all that is necessary to fix 无论何时你发现自己做错了，竭尽所能去弥补动作要快　　 whenever you pick up the phon,for the caller will be able to notice it.无论什么时候打电话，拿起话筒的时候请微笑，因为对方能感觉到！　　 to a person that likes to chat,for when your old age comes,chatting will be one of the best qualities you can find in someone.找一个爱聊的人结婚，因为当年龄大了以后，你会发觉喜欢聊天是一个人最大的优点之一　　 sometime alone.找点时间，单独呆会儿　　 changes,but do not repudiate（抛弃）your own values.欣然接受改变，但是不要摒弃你的个人理念　　 that sometimes silence is the best answer.记住，沉默是金　　 more books and watch less TV.多看点书，少看点电视　　 a good and honest you are old andremember the past,you will see how you can enjoy it all once again.过一种高尚而诚实的生活当你年老时回想起过去，你就能再一次享受人生　　 good atmosphere in your home is important.家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的　　 whatever is possible to keep your home peaceful and harmonious.尽你的全力让家平顺和谐　　 you have a quarrel with someone close to you,try to solve only the present issue.当你和你亲近的人吵嘴的时候，试着就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻、烂