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嗨，你不欠别人的 Many choices we make in life—ranging from what we do, to how we conduct ourselves, and who we interact with—are subject to prying questions and commentary from those around us. Family members, friends, and even total strangers, it often seems like everyone has an opinion on the things we do, no matter how small or insignificant those things might seem to us. 生活中，我们会做出多种选择，此时，身边的人难免想打听打听，或是评论评论。我们的所作所为、个人表现、人际交往都难逃此劫。再微不足道的事，人人也想来说两句，家人、朋友如此，连陌生人亦是如此。 Sometimes people go so far as to ask you to explain yourself for the decisions or choices you make in your own life. You might feel obliged to respond, but some things are really no one else’s business and you don’t owe anyone an explanation at all for the following 15 things—though you think you do. 有时候，有人毫无分寸，问你，为什么做这个决定，为什么这样选择自己的生活。你大概觉得你不能不回答，但有些事与旁人无关，你不欠任何人一个解释，即使你觉得有解释的必要。以下15件事就是如此。 1.You dont owe anyone an explanation for your living situation. 你怎么住，不欠别人一个解释 Whether you are cohabiting with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, crashing in different motel rooms across the country, or living with your parents for a while when you are past your twenties, you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone for who you live with and why if you don’t want to. If you are fully aware of your living situation, then it means you have your own reasons for being in that situation that are nobody else’s business. 跟前男友（或前女友）同居也罢，周游全国在各个汽车旅馆凑合也罢，20出头时跟父母一起住一段时间也罢，你不必跟任何人解释。只要你不愿解释，那么跟谁住、原因又是什么，都无须多言。如果你完全清楚自己的居住状况，那么可见你这么做自有原因。而这，不关别人的事。 2.You dont owe anyone an explanation for your life priorities. 你生活重心放在哪，不欠别人一个解释 You have your own ideas about the things that would make you and your loved ones truly comfortable and happy, which is your main priority. Since we are all unique individuals with different values, dreams and aspirations, your core priorities will be different from the next person’s. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for what you determine is your core priority in life. That is your personal business not other