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Lesson One Courtesy: Key to a Happier World Dr. Norman Vincent Peale Learning Guide 　　人生活在群体之中，为了解决自己的衣食住行，处处都要与他人打交道。即使是在英国人称之为“自己的城堡”的家里，人们也必须和睦相处，才能相安无事。风烟四起，舌战连绵，轻者使团体和家庭面和心不和，重者会导致团体瓦解，家庭破裂。处理好人际关系的秘诀是什么？本文作者在多年心理咨询工作中得出结论：以礼待人。他认为，不可小看如何对待他人一事，礼貌不仅仅是个人举止问题，而且也反映一个人的人生观。他还提出了一些化解矛盾和冲突的具体建议，你不妨试试。 　　1 Many years ago trying to help people with every kind of trouble left me with one sure conviction: in case after case the difficulty could have been overcome — or might never have arisen — if the people involved had just treated one another with common courtesy. help sb. with… 帮助某人做 …… Could you help me with the cooking? 你能帮我做饭吗？ trust/faith/belief/convictiontrust 信任，信赖 某人时，你便是依靠于他。 Pupils put their trust in their teachers. 小学生们都信赖他们的老师。faith 信任，信念,表示对某人或某事非常信任， 而这却可能是无法提供证据的。I have faith in this medicine. 我相信这种药。belief相信，信念，信仰， 指虽然没有确切的证据，但还是认为某事物是真实的，从而在思想上予以接受，该词使用范围很广，可涉及到观点、理论、哲学、宗教信仰甚至迷信等。 He has a strong belief in Buddhism. 他深信佛教。conviction 深信，确信; 信念， 是指一种强烈的信念。He joined the Communist Party on the basis of his conviction that communism will prevail through the world. 他加入共产党是基于他坚信共产主义将在全世界胜利。sth after sth 用来表示某事频繁发生 Year after year the Government refused to provide more funds for education.一年又一年，政府拒绝给教育增加投资。Case after case I found some young people from broken families addicted themselves to drugs.在一个个事例中，我发现一些来自破裂家庭的年轻人吸毒。 　　 Many years ago trying to help people with every kind of trouble left me with one sure conviction... 　　　多年以前，帮助人们解决各种各样问题的过程使我深信 　　　Trying to help people with every kind of trouble caused me to believe one thing firmly… 　　2 Courtesy, politeness, good manners — call it what you will, the supply never seems to equal the demand. ②Its not so much what my husband says, a tearful wife confides, as the way he says it. Why does he have to yell at me? I hate my boss, a grim-faced office worker mutters. He never shows appreciation for anything. All we get from our teenagers, a worried parent says, is a moody sullenness