九种问题易毁掉孩子.docVIP

九种问题易毁掉孩子 孩子的未来与家庭环境息息相关,如果有豁达而教育有方的父母,他们成长的世界就会大很多。如果父母自身就存在以下9个问题,那么想孩子有个好的未来是不可能的。 Our childrens future is closely related to family environment, if there is open-minded and good education of parents, their growth of the world would be much larger. If the parents themselves are nine questions below, so children want to have a good future is impossible. (一) 模具制造型 (a) mold manufacturing 持此类教育方式的家长,大有人在。此类家长,属于自以为是之人,总以为自己的想法不会错误,总以为自己是爱孩子,为孩子好。对孩子的要求极严,孩子的举手投足,都给予详尽的指示,从生活习惯、活动的范围方式,到读书的范围方法、兴趣爱好,甚至到高考专业的选择、毕业工作的种类,都受到强制性指导。 With the education method of parents, alone. Such parents, belongs to the self-righteous people, always thought oneself not wrong, always thought oneself is to love her children, for their children. Very strict with children, the childs hand is cast sufficient, have given detailed instructions from living habits, the scope of activity, to study the scope of the method, the interest hobby, even in the college entrance examination professional choice, types of graduate work, are subject to mandatory instruction. 殊不知,人是万物之灵,人最大的长处,是善于思想,善于学习,善于在学习中创造,而这种教育模式,无形之中,就抹杀了孩子的自主学习与创造能力。在这种模式之下,不否认也有一些孩子有所成就,但更多的孩子,却成为模具制造的产品,家长原形的克隆,人的独立思考与创造能力,在这些克隆产品中黯然消退。龙生龙,凤生凤,老鼠的儿子会打洞,在这种模式之下,恐怕龙凤老鼠的后代,都是“老鼠”了! Little imagine, man is the soul of the universe, mans greatest strengths, is good at thinking, good at learning, good at in learning to create, and this kind of education mode, aeriform in, will kill the childs autonomous learning and creative ability. Under this model, do not deny that there are some children achievement, but more children became mould manufacturing products, parents prototype of cloning, independent thinking and creativity, in these clones sadly diminished. Dragon born dragon, chicken born chicken, mouses son can make hole, under this model, Im afraid longfeng mice offspring, are mouse! (二) 温室培养型 (2) the type of greenhouse cultivation 经济条件的改善,孩子数目的减少,使家长更有能力精力来教育培养孩子。捧在手中怕掉了,含在嘴里怕化了,给予孩子最好的学习与成长条件,弥补自己少时的缺憾,这是生在艰苦年代的家长的普遍做法。 The impr