运用沙维雅模式於受配偶外遇影响妇女之治疗团体.pptVIP

16 June 2010 成蒂 Di Cherng 運用沙維雅模式於受配偶外遇影響婦女之治療團體 Infidelity as a Transformational Process for Betrayed Partners: The Therapeutic Group Work Based on the Satir Model 成蒂 Di Cherng 第一部份 The First Part 基本概論 Overview 定義外遇Definition of Infidelity  未經過伴侶同意而在情感或生理上的親密有其他的出口或關係。 Emotional physical intimacy of the couple has other outlets or relationships without the partner’s consent 打破(違反)伴侶間在情感或性方面排他性的約定。 A violation of the couple’s contract regarding emotional and /or sexual exclusivity(weeks,2003) 三個特徵：秘密、情感上的親密、性的反應 Characterized by secrecy, emotional intimacy, and sexual chemistry (Glass,2003) 外遇種類 Types of Affairs 性親密為主的外遇 Primarily Sexual Involvement 情感親密為主的外遇 Primarily emotional Involvement 兼具以上二者的外遇 Combined Type 認識外遇 Understanding Infidelity 社會文化脈絡對外遇的態度、觀點、信念、社會規範、文化價值的影響 The social context: attitudes, perceptions, beliefs, social norms, cultural values regarding infidelity 外遇可能會發生在良好婚姻關係中 Affairs can happen in good marriage. 外遇的揭露對配偶是創傷事件 The revelation of affair is a traumatic event for the betrayed partner. 許多夫妻能將外遇的痛苦轉化為力量和成長，使親密關係更加茁壯Many couples can transform the bitterness of infidelity into growth and strength. 第二部份 The second Part 外遇的揭露 Revelation of Infidelity 外遇發現之前Before Revelation 祕密、謊言、懷疑 Secrets, Lies, Suspiciousness 線索、偵測、面質 Clues, Defection, Confrontation 發現外遇Discovery of Affair 無意中發現Accidental discoveries 自動告白Confessions 他人告白Informant 否認Denying 發現之後After Revelation 創傷性反應Traumatic effects 導致離婚或分居 Cause of separation and divorce 家庭暴力或自殺 Domestic violence or suicide 成長和進步Growth improvement 個人或婚姻治療 Presenting problem for individual or marital therapy 第三部份The Third Part