感谢那些年初恋教会我的五件事(双语).docVIP

Conflict can be healthy 吵吵更健康 No relationship will be smooth sailing?from?start to?finish. No matter how much you care about someone, or how much you have in common, there will be times when you disagree. Sacrifice,?compromise, and communication will soon take the place of quarreling or arguing。 没有感情不争吵。不管你有多在乎对方，不管你们有多少共同点，你们肯定会有意见不合的时候。忍让、妥协交流都能让你们停止争吵。 Your body issues aren’t really issues 外貌不是问题 All of us have hang-ups about our appearance, but being with your first love will?makeyou view yourself in a different way. In fact,?significant?others will often adore the qualities you?think?are flaws. Most importantly, your first love will surely teach you to see your body in a more positive way, regardless of the road your relationship takes。 我们都很在乎自己的外表，但是你的初恋会让你用不一样的方式看待自己。事实上某些人还会羡慕你自己眼中的缺点。更重要的是，不管你们的感情路如何，初恋会教你用另一种更积极地方式看待你自己。 Selflessness is a virtue 无私是一种美德 If you’re like?most?of us, the biggest concerns in life are things that affect you. While a self-centered approach is often valuable in career and education endeavors. Learning to share your time and space long-term?will be absolutely crucial to a?successful love life in the future. First loves challenge our selfishness。 像我们大多数人一样，生活中最大的问题就是影响到自己的问题。然而以自我为中心最大的好处就体现在职场和教育中。学着与人分享你的时间和空间对于未来完美的感情生活是很重要的。初恋往往挑战着你的自私。 You’re too hard on yourself 对自己太严厉 Many of us?hold?what we?think?are high standards for ourselves, but they are in fact impossible?standards. if you would be soft on a friend in the same situation, there’s no need to be hard on yourself. If your relationship’s a?healthy?one,?your first love will undoubtedly challenge this habit。 我们许多人都给自己定了高要求，但实际上都做不到。如果同样的情况下你能对朋友做到轻松相待，那你也没必要对自己严厉，如果你们感情很好，那么毫无疑问你的初恋也会挑战你的这一习惯。 Relationships need love too 感情也需要爱的经营 Maintaining a relationship is much different than casually dating or starting a relationship. To truly care for someone else takes?effort?and longevity. Learning how to care for someone?over time, and how to?make?the right decisions for?your situati