5分钟英语演讲稿ted.docx

5分钟英语演讲稿ted 篇一：TED英语演讲稿　　01. Remember to say thank you 　　Hi. Im here to talk to you about the importance of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be specific and genuine.  　　And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their praise of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the only one who does this? So, I decided to investigate.  　　Im fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death with addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as simple as, their core wound is their father died without ever saying hes proud of them. But then, they hear from all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because he didnt know that his son needed to hear it.  　　So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentleman, married for 25 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, Thank you for being the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids, but wont ask. I know a woman whos good at this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids. And he goes, Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, April, who Ive had since kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, Why wouldnt I thank it, even though theyre supposed to do it?  　　So, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were other people blocking it? Why can I say, Ill take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes, but I wont say, Would you praise me this way? And its because Im giving y