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当我真正开始爱自己 WHEN I STARTED LOVING MYSELF 查理·卓别林（Charles Chaplin） 当我真正开始爱自己，我才认识到，所有的痛苦和情感的折磨，都只是提醒我： 活着，不要违背自己的本心。今天我明白了，这叫做『真实』。 As I began to love myself, I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth.Today, I know, this is AUTHENTICITY. 当我真正开始爱自己，我才懂得，把自己的愿望强加于人，是多么的无礼， 就算我知道，时机并不成熟，那人也还没有做好准备，就算那个人就是我自己，今天我明白了，这叫做『尊重』。 As I began to love myself, I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to force my desires on this person,even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it,and even though this person was me. Today I call it RESPECT. 当我开始爱自己，我不再渴求不同的人生，我知道任何发生在我身边的事情， 都是对我成长的邀请。如今，我称之为『成熟』。 As I began to love myself, I stopped craving for a different life,and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it MATURITY. 当我开始真正爱自己，我才明白，我其实一直都在正确的时间，正确的地方，发生的一切都恰如其分。由此我得以平静。今天我明白了，这叫做『自信』。As I began to love myself, I understood that at any circumstance,I am in the right place at the right time,and everything happens at the exactly right moment,so I could be calm. Today I call it SELF-CONFIDENCE. 当我开始真正爱自己，我不再牺牲自己的自由时间，不再去勾画什么宏伟的明天。今天我只做有趣和快乐的事，做自己热爱，让心欢喜的事，用我的方式，以我的韵律。今天我明白了，这叫做『单纯』。As I began to love myself, I quit steeling my own time,and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness,things I love to do and that make my heart cheer,and I do them in my own way,and in my own rhythm. Today I call it HONESTY. 当我开始真正爱自己，我开始远离一切不健康的东西。不论是饮食和人物，还是事情和环境，我远离一切让我远离本真的东西。从前我把这叫做“追求健康的自私自利”，但今天我明白了，这是『自爱』。As I began to love myself, I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health –food, people, things, situations,and everything that drew me down and away from myself.At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is LOVE OF ONESELF.当我开始真正爱自己，我不再总想着要永远正确，不犯错误。我今天明白了，这叫做『谦逊』。As I began to love myself, I quit trying to alway