英文经典阅读教：学会聆听,日后定会成功.pptVIP

英文经典阅读教材：学会聆听，日后定会成功 Many people neglect this most important communication skill. 许多人忽视了这一最为重要的沟通技巧。 Do you know that we spend an average of our waking day communicating? 你是否积压物资我们醒着时有一半的时间是用来沟通的？ Of this communication time, 9% is spent writing, 16% reading, 30% talking and 45% listening. 在这段时间里，9%是通过写，16%是读，30%是说而45%是用来听。 Immediately after hearing something, most of us can recall only 50% of what we hear. Within two to eight weeks, we can recall only 25% or less of the original message. Our mental attitudes reduce our ability to retain what we hear. 一听完某件事，大多数人只能记住其中之一的50%，两至八个星期内，我们只能记得原信息的25%，甚至更少。我们的精神状态削弱了我们的记忆能力。 Some suggestions to being a good listener are mentioned below. 以下是关于怎样做个好听众的建议： First of all, stop talking----you cant listen while you are talking. 首先，停止讲话——你说话时是无法听。 Ask questions----when you dont understand, when you need further clarification, when you want them to like you and when you want to show that you are listening. 问问题——如你不甚理解，你需要进一步澄清，当你希望他们喜欢你并且想证明你正在听时。 Dont interrupt----give them time to say what they have to say. 不要打岔——给他们时间说他们必须说的一切。 Concentrate on what they are saying---- actively focus your attention on their words, their ideas and their feelings as they relate to the subject. 集中精神听他们说——当他们说到主题时，主动把你的注意力放在你们的言语思想和感情上。 Look at the prospect---- by looking, it gives them confidence that you are, in fact, listening. It helps you to concentrate too. 望着前方——通过望对方，对方就更有信心，说明你正听他说话，这也有助于你集中精神。 Leave your emotions behind----try to forget your own worries and problems. Leave them outside of the meeting room. They will prevent you from listening well. 搁置情感——暂时忘记你自己的烦恼和问题，把它们都通通留在会议室门外，因为它们会让你没法好好听。 Understand the main points ----concentrate on the main ideas and not the illustrative material. 理解要点——集中精力听主要意思而非说明性材料。 Dont argue mentally----when you are trying to understand other people, it is a handicap to argue with them mentally as they are speaking. This only sets up a barrier between yourself and the speaker. 切忌激烈地争论——如果你想理解别人哀兵