He is not that into you英文电子资料.pdf

he is not that into you ——对女孩们意义深远的话。 世界上，几乎每一个角落里，都有女生在问： 为什么他没有给我打电话？为什么他不来找我？为什么他突然失去了联系？ 然后，这样的女生身边，总有一群劝解她的死党好友。 好友总是说，“他这样做只是因为太爱你了”，“也许他害羞”，“也许他自卑”， “也许他不知道怎么联络你”，“相信我，他肯定是喜欢你的”……女人们只想赶 快让姐妹们笑起来，却很少想该怎么让她们清醒。 事实是，也许他只是不想找你。 难得我干这种事，为那些在感情上纠结烦恼的朋友提个醒，有些时候那些 事情并不值得我们去烦恼太多。喜欢或者觉得有用，请分享给身边的朋友们吧 ~~ A girl will never forget the first boy she likes, even if things don’t quite work out. But usually someone is there to offer words of wisdom: “Honey, do you know why that little boy did those things and said those things? Because he likes you.” And there it is, that’s the beginning of our problem. Do you know what this means? We’re all encouraged…No ！programmed… To believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk, that means he likes you.Do you know what this means ？we’re all encourage…no ， programmed …to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk…that means he likes you 。 Why do we say this stuff to each other? Is it possible that it’s because we’re too scared and it’s too hard to say the one obvious truth that’s staring everyone in the face?——He’s just not that into you. 女孩儿永远忘不掉她喜欢的第一个男孩儿。就算那一幕并不是那么完美。 但总会有个人告诉你这句至理名言：“亲爱的，你知道那个男孩为什么那么做， 为什么这么说你吗？因为他喜欢你。”就是这句，我们一切烦恼的开端。你知道 这意味着什么？我们都被鼓励着去……不，是被设定了……去相信这个事实— —如果一个男人做点蠢事……就意味着他喜欢你。——为什么我们要说这些互 相安慰的话？可能是因为我们害怕……也很难开口承认这个明显的事实……这 都写在大家脸上了——他其实并没有那么喜欢你。 Every movie we see, every story we’re told, implores us to wait for it. The third act twist. The unexpected declaration of love. The exception to the rule. But sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending, we don’t learn how to read the signs, how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don’t, the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave. And maybe this happy ending doesn’t include a wonderful guy. Maybe it’s you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Or maybe the happy endin