学会拒绝的英语演讲稿.docx

学会拒绝的英语演讲稿 　　Learntosayno　　MaybebecauseItoocareaboutotherpeoplesfeelings,sointhefaceofsomeoneelsesrequest,Iwillneverhavethehearttosayno.Eventheueasonabledemands,Ialsoalwaysreadilyagreed,particularlyaftertheyoftenregretthis,IamfullofthanonceIdeterminedtolearntorejectothers,buteachtimethefaceofwhichbothbeggingforattention,Ioneday,Idid,Irefusedanueasonablerequest.AlthoughittemporarilywillIbringtrouble,butIbelieveIamdoingso.Afterhalfanhouroffighting,Imfinallyshareofpapers.Justrelieved!Troublecame.Canyoulendusyourpaperslook?Afterthedeskaskedmesoftly.Isighedwithfrustration,handedherthepapers.Immediatelybehindthehilarious,Iwasveryuncomfortable,IknowthatIhelpedthemmakemistakes,butImnotevenrejecttheweakhavenocourage.Thevoicebehindmoreandmore,Icannotpretendnothinghadhappened,thisismyfault.Suddenly,Iturnedquicklyoutofthehandsfromwhichbothhispapers.Theylookedatmeseriousface,seemstounderstandwhatIwascourage,said:Youshouldworkindependently.Itdoesnotmatter,andthatwasnotdifficult,youmustbecompleted.quot;Listeningtomy1　　words,theydisappointed,butIknowthisisonlytemporary,onedaytheywillunderstandallthisisfortheirgood,finallyremovetheburdenofhearthere.Thisconsciencefeelgood!Ilearnedtorefusetochangetheirownweakness.ThislifehasbeenIfeelthetaste,IthinkitshouldbegoodfortheUnitedStatesrefused.Rejectedthecitysbustlingdowntown,yougetaweakruraltranquility.Mistyrainturnedsultrypoetry,yougetthepuresunnythebitterlypainfuleventsofthepast,youwillgainconfidenceeasysmile.Learntorefuse,youwillhaveafullflavorofthevastsky.Learntorefuse,youwillflyintheirownuniquespiritualhome.Letuslearntorefusetomakelifemoremeaningful.Letuslearntorefusetocreateaharmonioussociety.　　Letuslearntoreject,abetterlife.　　2　　演讲与口才演讲稿：学会如何正确拒绝　　1.做好心理建设　　职场心理学专家冢越友子认为，每个人首先必须认知自己有拒绝别人的权利。其次，找个能自在讲话的场所，并且考虑谈话的时机。接下来是想清楚要拒绝对方要求中的哪个部分，并且预先准备好能明确传达出“这个部分我没办法帮你，但如果改成??我就可以帮上忙”的讯息。最后是设想传达讯息之后可能会发生的状况。　　2.找出“yes/no”之外的选项　　遇上同事请求协助的时候，自觉只能接受或拒绝，没有转圜余地，也是导致人们无法拒绝的原因之一。其实，只要把拒绝别人的请托当成是在跟对方交涉，就比较能够打破心里障碍，没有那么难开口。　　假设完全接受对方的请求是10