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15-7-6 To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This - The New York Times http://nyti.ms/1FBeLRc STY L E To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This JA N. 9, 20 15 Modern Lov e By MANDY LEN CATRON Updated, Feb . 13, 2015 | To try the 3 6 questions described below, download our f ree app f or your p hone, tablet or other device. More than 20 years ago, the psychologist Arthur Aron succeeded in making two strangers fall in love in his laboratory. Last summer, I applied his technique in my own life, which is how I found myself standing on a bridge at midnight, staring into a man’s eyes for exactly four minutes. Let me explain. Earlier in the evening, that man had said: “I suspect, given a few commonalities, you could fall in love with anyone. If so, how do you choose someone?” He was a university acquaintance I occasionally ran into at the climbing gym and had thought, “What if?” I had gotten a glimpse into his days on Instagram. But this was the first time we had hung out one-on- one. “Actually, psychologists have tried making people fall in love,” I said, remembering Dr. Aron’s study. “It’s fascinating. I’ve always wanted to try it.” I first read about the study when I was in the midst of a breakup. /2015/01/11/fashion/modern-love-to-fall-in-love-with-anyone-do-this.html?_r 0 1/6 15-7-6 To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This - The New York Times Each time I thought of leaving, my heart overruled my brain. I felt stuck. So, like a good academic, I turned to science, hoping there was a way to love smarter. I explained the study to my university acquaintance. A heterosexu