【帮帮美文】About making friends关于交友.pdfVIP

About making friends关于交友 Friends andvaluative--On Making Friends Everyone needs friends,and if youfailto make friends,you should examine yo urself and see ifthere is something wrong withyour personality. May be you have socialfaults suchas snobbishness,talkativeness and usi ng slang etc.whichdrive away your new acquaintances.Whateveryoursocial faults may be,lookat them honestly andmake realeffort to correct them. To be friendly you must feelfriendly.Cheerfulness is the basis of friendliness. A cheerfulpeople smiles.A smile is a magnet whichdraws people.Smile at so meone and youare almost sure toget a smile in return. A friendly persondoes his best to make a strangerfeelat home,wherever he happensto be.Putyourself inthe otherfellow's place and make themfeelwelc ome. Try to remember names.It makes your new acquaintances feel happy wheny oucallthem by theirnames.It givesthemthe feeling that they have made an impressiononyouand that meansomething to them because you remember them. If you don't agree withother people ona certain matter,you should appeart o be friendly.Don'targue,but discuss.Youalways lose friends if youargue too much. A friendly personthinks of others,and doesn't insist on his own "rights".Peopl e who refuse toconsiderothers have few friends. Finally,don't treat people only according to theirsocial positions.Really friendl y peoplerespect everyone at alltimes. 关于交友 人人都需要朋友，若你在交朋友方面总是失败，就该反省自己，看是否你的个性有什么问题。 或许你有些在社交上应该避讳的缺点，比如势力、饶舌、说脏话等，这些都会妨碍你结交新 朋友。无论你有什么社交缺点，都该正视它们，尽力摒弃。 要友善，你一定要给人友好的感觉：快乐是友善的基础。一个快乐的人总会面带微笑。微笑 好似有吸引力的磁铁，你对别人微笑，你也会得到他微笑的回报。 无论在哪里，友善之人都会让陌生人有居家般自在舒适的感觉，设身处地为陌生人考虑，让 他有备受欢迎的感觉。 尽量记住人名。对新认识的朋友直呼其名会令他们很高兴，他们会觉得你对他有了一定的印 象，这说明你记住了他们，这对他们很重要。 若在某件事上你不能与别人达成一致意见，你该表现出友好。可以讨论，但不要争吵。争吵 过甚会使你失去朋友。 友善之人常为他人考虑，不会为自己争取“权力”。不顾及别人的人，他的朋友寥寥无几。 最后，切勿以社会地位论人。真正的友善之人往往尊重别人。开学巨