三分之一男性愿意和不爱的女人结婚.docVIP

Are you Mrs Just-good-enough? 三分之一男性愿意和不爱的女人结婚 Men are more likely than women to marry someone they feel is not quite right for them, debunking the myth that women will do anything for a ring - and that men, on the other hand, will do anything to shun commitment. 男人其实比女人更能接受不是很有感觉的人作为自己的结婚对象，这打破了女人愿为结婚做任何事，而男人会不惜一切逃避婚姻承诺的不实传言。 The recent Singles in America survey by M - which also drew attention to the sexual differences between political persuasions - delivered the surprising results. 婚恋网站M近日开展的美国单身人士调查发布了这一惊人的结果，该调查还关注了男女在政治信仰上的差异。 Of the surveys 5,000 respondents, 31 percent of men, compared to 23 percent of women, admitted they would consider marrying someone who has everything they are looking for in a partner but with whom they werent in love. 调查涵盖的5000人中，31%的男性和23%的女性坦言他们会考虑和一个“符合自己对伴侣的所有要求”但自己不爱的人结婚。 21 percent of men went even further, confessing that they would commit to someone they werent sexually attracted to. 21%的男性甚至承认他们会和对自己没有性吸引力的女人结婚。 Contrary to what popular culture suggests - which lady hasnt sympathised with Bridget Jones, or laughed at 27 Dresses? - men, young men in particular, are only too happy to settle. 这和流行文化传递的信息正相反。哪个女人不曾与布里吉特?琼斯产生过共鸣，又有哪个女人会嘲笑《27次伴娘》的主人公呢？受其影响，人们认为男人，特别是年轻男人，都很享受当前的快乐生活，不愿被婚姻绑住。 Whether it is a resignation to believing there may never be the one or a case of domestic pragmatism, men are willing to commit and live a life with a woman they feel is not 100 percent ideal. 不管是无奈地认为“真爱”也许根本不存在，还是对家庭所持的实用主义价值观，不少男人愿意和一个并非百分百理想对象的女人结婚并一起生活。 Counter-intuitively, the urge to marry was even stronger for men in their twenties than for those in their thirties and rose again for men in their forties. 和我们的直觉相反，二十多岁的男人比三十多岁的男人更想结婚，在男人过了四十以后，结婚愿望又重新变得强烈起来。 The apparent resignation among men to marry for the sake of marrying - and the company, support and security it offers - rather than for love and true attraction does not come as news to some men. 男人为结婚而结婚对某些男人来说并不是新闻，他们为了获得陪伴、支持和安全感而结婚，而非为了爱情和吸引力而结婚，这显然也是无奈之举。 Tom Fant, a healthcare