TED演讲：如果我有一个女儿.pdfVIP

TED 演讲：如果我有一个女儿 这个演讲使全场两次起立鼓掌，在 TED 非常少见！如 果你有一个女儿，你会对她说什么？是说说这个世界的美好， 还是这个世界的艰难？——“如果我有一个女儿， 她不叫我妈 妈，而是管我叫 B 点。因为她知道不论发生什么，总能回到 我身边……” If I should have a daugher 如果我有一个女儿 instead of Mom,shes gonna call me Point B 她会称我为“第二目的 地”，而非“妈妈” because that way sheknows that no matter what happens 因为她知道无论发生什么事 at least she can always find her way to me. 最后她总能找到办法回到我身边 And Im going to paint solar system on the backs of her hands 我会把太阳系画在她的手背上 so she has to learn the entire universe 她会了解整个宇宙 before she can say Oh,I know that like the back of my hand. 在她能够说 “哦，我对 这了如指掌” 之前 And shes going to learn 并且她会学到 that this life will hit you hard in the face 生活将会向你迎面痛击 wait for you to get back up just so it can kick you in the stomach 等着你重 新站好再踢你的肚子 But getting the wind knocked out of you 但是 让狂风将你袭倒 is the only way to remind your lungs 是唯一 唤醒你肺部的方式 how much they like the taste of air 让它们想起 它们是多么喜爱空气 There is hurt, here 的确 这伤痛依旧 that cannot be fixed by Band-Aids of poetry. 创可贴或者诗歌也无法修复 So the first time she realizes 所以当她第一次意识到 that Wonder Woman isnt coming 神奇女侠不会出现 Ill make sure she knows 我会让 她懂得 she doesnt have to wear the cape all by herself 她 并不一定要为自己时刻披上斗篷 because no matter how wide you stretch your fingers 因为“无论怎么伸长你的手指 your hands will always be too small 你的双手永远太小 to catch all the pain you want to heal. 以至承担不了所有你想 愈合的伤痛 Belive me, I have tried.