10 Habits of Remarkably Charismatic People分析和总结分析和总结.pdfVIP

10 Habits of Remarkably Charismatic People 10 Habits of Remarkably Charismatic People Being remarkably charismatic isnt about our level of success or our presentation skills or how we dress or the image we project--its about what we do. Some people instantly make us feel important. Some people instantly make us feel special. Some people light up a room just by walking in. We can’t always define it, but some people have it: They’re naturally charismatic. Unfortunately, natural charisma quickly loses its impact. Familiarity breeds, well, familiarity. But some people are remarkably charismatic: They build and maintain great relationships, consistently influence (in a good way) the people around them, consistently make people feel better about themselves–they’re the kind of people everyone wants to be around…and wants to be. Fortunately we can, because being remarkably charismatic isn’t about our level of success or our presentation skills or how we dress or the image we project–it’s about what we do. Here are the 10 habits of remarkably charismatic people: 1. They listen way more than they talk. Ask questions. Maintain eye contact. Smile. Frown. Nod. Respond–not so much verbally, but nonverbally. That’s all it takes to show the other person they’re important. Then when you do speak, don’t offer advice unless you’re asked. Listening shows you care a lot more than offering advice, because when you offer advice in most cases you make the conversation about you, not them. Don’t believe me? Who is ―Here’s what I would do…‖ about: you or the other person? Only speak when you have something important to say–and always define important as what matters to the other person, not to you. 2. They don’t practice selective hearing. Some people — I guarantee you know people like this — are incapable of hearing anything said by the people they feel are somehow beneath them. Sure, you speak to them, but that particular falling tree doesn’t make a sound in the f