【中英演讲稿】被拒绝100次后，世界开始对他说Yes.pdfVIP

TED 英语演说优选 - TED 演讲 ｜被拒绝 100 次后，世界开始对他说 Yes 贾江勇敢地冒险进入我们许多人担心的领土：拒绝。通过寻求 100 天的拒绝，从要求一个陌生人借 100 美元到在一家餐馆里请求“汉 堡包”，贾江最终达成了让自己对拒绝经常带来的痛苦和耻辱不敏 感的目标。其实被打破被拒绝的困境并不难，只要你能“勇敢开 口”，并且坚持“多问一句”。 演讲者：Jia Jiang 演说题目：不要害怕被拒绝，拒绝并不可怕 When I was six years old, I received my gifts. My first grade teacher had this brilliant idea. She wanted us to experience receiving gifts but also learning the virtue of complimenting each other. So she had all of us come to the front of the classroom, and she bought all of us gifts and stackedthem in the corner. 当我 6 岁的时候，我收到了份礼物。我一年级的老师有一个很棒的 主意。她想让我们在接受礼物的同时还能学习如何表扬他人。所以 她让我们走到教室前面，她给我们每个人带了礼物，堆在墙角。 And she said, Why dont we just stand here and compliment each other? If you hear your name called, go and pick up your gift and sit down. What a wonderful idea, right? What could go wrong? 然后她说： “让我们在这里互相表扬吧。如果你听到有谁表扬你， 就去拿一份礼物然后回座位。”多棒的主意，对吗？能出什么差错 呢？ Well, there were 40 of us to start with, and every time I heard someones name called, I would give out the heartiest cheer. And then there were 20 people left, and 10 people left, and five left ... and three left. 我们一共有 40 个孩子，每一次别人被叫到名字，我都会很高兴的叫 好。然后剩下 20 个人，然后 10 个人，5 个人……最后剩下了 3 个 人。 And I was one of them. And the compliments stopped. Well, at that moment, I was crying. And the teacher was freaking out. She was like, Hey, would anyone say anything nice about these people? 而我是其中一个。再也没有表扬了。就在那时，我开始哭。老师也 不知所措。她说： “嘿，有没有人愿意表扬一下这些同学？” No one? OK, why dont you go get your gift and sit down. So behave next year — someone might say something nice about you. “没有吗？好吧。那你们去拿一份礼物然后回座位吧。明年要好好 表现哦，说不定会有人表扬你。” Well, as Im describing this you, you probably know I remember this really well. 你看我记得如此清楚，因为这是我心里永远的痛。 But I dont know who felt worse that day. Was it me or the teacher? She must have realized that she turned a team-building event into a public roast for three six-year-olds. And without the humor. 但我不知道当天谁的感觉更糟糕，我还是我的老师？她一定意识到 自己把一个团队建设活动变成了3 个 6 岁孩子的尴尬时刻。而且这