高一下册七选五英语模拟模拟试题测试题[002].docxVIP

高一下册七选五英语模拟模拟试题测试题

Itcanbepainfulwhenyoufeellikeyourparentsaretreatingyoursiblings(兄弟姐妹)better

thanyou.Ifyoufeelreallysadaboutthis,thefollowingstepscanhelpyouimprovethesituation.

1

Sincewereallunique,nobodyrelatestoanytwopeopleinexactlythesameway.Sometimesaparentmightappeartofavoryouinsomesituationsandfavorasiblinginothers.Noparentcanbeperfect,buttheyshoulddotheirbesttobefair.Itsnormalforparentstotreateachchildlittledifferently,becauseeachkidmightbenefitfromaslightlydifferentapproach.

Trytellingyourparentshowyoufeel.

Yourgoalistocommunicateyourfeelingsdirectlywithoutbeingrude.2Forexample,saying“Ifeelignoredisbetterthansayingyoureignoringme.Youcanalsosay,Ifeelleftoutately.SometimesIfeellikeyouresobusytakingcareofthebabythatyoudonthaveenoughtimeforme.

Askforwhatyoudliketohappen.

3Thisletsthemknowhowtheycantrytofixtheproblem.Presentanideathatcould

help.Youcansay,CouldyoupleasetrytoshowuptomoreofmygamessothatIllfeelsohappyknowingyouretheretocheermeon.

Stepawayifthingsgetheated.

Maybeyouoryourparentswillgetangry.Itshardtohaveausefulconversationifoneorbothpeoplearetooangrytothinkstraight.Ifyouseethishappening,takeabreak.Dosomedeepbreathingandstepaway..4

Rememberthatyourparentshavetomakethedecisiontochange.

Sometimestalkingaboutyourfeelingsisenoughforthemtochangetheir

behavior5Thistypicallyisntyourfault(错误).Thewaytheyreacttoanhonest

conversationsayshowgoodtheyareatparenting,nothowgoodyouareatbeingtheirchild.Youcantchangeotherpeople.Youcanonlycontrolyourownbehavior.

A.Othertimesitisnt.

B.Use“!”languageinsteadof“you”language.

C.Keepinmindthateveryrelationshipisdifferent.

D.Rememberthatyoucanalwaystry